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Nicole's avatar

Oh my heart is literally breaking all over again Lisa...

My dad passed this last October and it is the most visceral pain. I love you.

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lisa's avatar

I am so sorry about your dad, friend. It is an impossible loss and it sucks so bad to lose the people we care about and need so much. Love you right back, you're not alone.

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Malou Schött's avatar

Oh sweet pea friend I’m crying over here for your loss and guilt. You were there (on a screen) when my dad died, Im so thankful for those little square pictures of new friends at that time. here’s a thing I learned.. I did everything I possibly could for him, so few mistakes in the last months .. near perfection. And the guilt was still huge. I nitpicked every little thing in to pieces and found guilt between the cracks. 5 years later I’m ok knowing I would have done things differently if I had a script of my life but there is none, you did the best you could with the tools handed to you at that time. You loved mom, that’s all you had to do ♥️

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lisa's avatar

Friend, been holding this note close to my heart since I read it. Thank you so much for the kind words and sharing your experience, it helps so much. 💜

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